Five Things Motherhood Has Taught Me.

Thanks Forever Mother for tagging me in this and making me think.

What has motherhood taught me? Agh. So much. But, here’s the thing. When I respond to a question like this on my blog, there is, almost immediately, a conflict in my mind – between what I think motherhood has taught me and what it really has. You know, we have a perception about ourselves, which is not always accurate, but we like to believe facts about ourselves anyway! And a question like this makes me stop and think about perception and reality. Agh. The truth is not always good!

Anyway, here’s a sincere attempt:

1. Children are born selfish. The first instinct is of survival and self fulfillment. It is for the parents to teach them about sharing and giving. Ever tried to take a toy away from a two year old? What did that result in? You know what I mean..

2. Having kids has taught me something about my own parents – that people are not perfect and we expect our parents to be. It’s only when you become one you realize that your parents are human too.

3. Children do lie, though they do it without malice. So don’t always believe yours, listen to the other kid too..

4. Every child is different, so comparison is really not a positive thing.

5. And now for some emotion! Above all, motherhood has taught me to thank God for my happy life. No matter how much I rant and rave, I am fortunate. Very fortunate. And I don’t mean only economically. I mean it in every sense of the word…

Has motherhood changed me?

Like hell it has. Some for the better and some for the worse. Honestly.



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5 responses to “Five Things Motherhood Has Taught Me.

  1. Points 3 and 4 absolutely correct, I can tell from my own experience.

  2. Thats really true…I tried to express some of a bit in my blog too.. when someone asked me what is a daughter??
    Being mom to one… for me the instant thought that came as an answer to the question was – my daughter is… is a satin ribbon Almighty wrapped around to hold the bond between me n my hubby stronger….. she is a lesson that time and again makes me realise my mum’s value for her efforts of motherhood….. she is a blessing to me that helped me know much much more about myself….who let me learn how patient I can be….how dreadful can I be at any incident that didn’t really happen….. she is a fear….a fear which I didn’t realise that it was within my parents when I was getting married being loaded with tons of instructions from my parents on how to settle in the new life with new people and I used to be like…plz I’m just going to a new house!! lolz….a daughter is a bunch of flowers…a cherished bottle of perfume….an always filled mug of tears of joy over the months,days,moments that pass by of her childhood mischiefs…

    Woops, getting too emotional…but a daughter is always a princess to her parents !!

  3. ‘Some for the better and some for the worse’ – That is bang on ! So true. Here’s wishing all moms – ‘More of the former to lessen pain from the latter’ 🙂 !!!

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